Punched in the stomach and i feel sick ?

If your friend punched you then I wouldn't be friends with them anymore, maybe you should punch them back.

Do you think I have OCD?

I have a history of mental illnesses in my family... like bipolarism and depression and also a few eating disorders. I'm 15 and even though I am really unorganized I still feel the need to center things and organize piles and such ? haha I collect things that aren't really important (ie about 500 archie comics) and keep things alot just in case i need them for later.. apparently i'm a hoarder. i also constantly crack my knuckles and bite my fingernails, and if i need to crack my knuckles but am like doing something with my hand i'll freak out.. if i'm at home or a friends house i check doors multiple times, usually when a friend doesn't notice because they think its weird. for projects and such i'm a perfectionist and take a ridiculous amount of times on things i shouldnt. i've had weird thoughts occasionally as well. i'm not a germophobe or anything, i was just wondering hahaha.

Relationship advice please?

I have known this guy named Heracles (funny name right?) for a long time and he is kind of an asshole but for as long as I can remember I have been slowly falling in love with everything about him. He never goes to work, so he is a bum that sleeps all day. He has a ton of cats so he is kind of crazy, he might be an animal hoarder. We fight all the time; all of our mutual friends avoid inviting us to the same parties and get-together to avoid a fight between the two of us. After all of this though, I find myself awake at night thinking about him and wishing he were with me. How do I tell him that I feel this way?

What do you think this dream means?

I was in my old house, and all my family was there. It was my dad and mom and baby sister and me..my mom and dad were talking in low voices and they told me and my baby sis to go in the room upstairs..so I walked upstairs..then my mom came in and said, are you alright? I didn't understand what she meant..then we all got in the car...we went to a really sunny place..with palm trees and it was so beutiful..I. was thinking it could be california or florida....but then all of a sudden when we got out a beutiful guy with black hair and dark green eyes was staring at me..he said he loved me...then he walked in somewhere.it was a church..it was decorated ..then all of a sudden my dad comes in and falls..he says he's ok...then one of my cousins comes in and he says he's happy for me..I didn't understand..then a really old lady came in she looked just like me....she came in with a man who looked like the boy I saw earlier..then my dad got up and said are you ready? And after that I woke up..could this be my wedding or my husband maybe? Plz help I didn't understand

Punched in the sotmach and i feel really sick!?

Well, there is a chance she broke your rib, which explains the pains, but no the nausea. I recommend going to a doctor and getting an X-ray or at least a checkover to make sure that she didn't do more damage than you think she did. I was once punched on the arm and it turns out my mate fractured my wrist and i didn't realize it :D

How can I deal with my mother - does she have mental problems?

She definitely isn't right. And she should not be taking care of herself. I cant help you very much , I dont live in the States. But i'm sure there must be some authorities you can contact who attendt to cases like this.

Please Help!!!! Bunny Over-Heated!!!!! :::(?

So I left my bunny in his outdoor pen in the shade while I was gone for an hour & I asked my Dad to move him if it got sunny there while I was gone & when I got back my bunny was in a different spot where it's always sunny & my Dad "did it on purpose" cuz hes a b*tch like always & Honey Bear was just laying there breathing kinda fast & I brought him inside & layed him on a soft towel with a fan blowing on him & got him to drink some more water plus I rubbed some water on him. What else can I do?!!!!! SSorryIm typing this fast & not caring about puncuation on here cuz I just need help! & plz dont say vet we have no money. dont evn use the wrd cuz i have no way to go to one srry anything will help PLEASE. he cant die on me ::( ::::(((

Personalized cassette tape help?

My aunt got me a tape a while back and it broke so I need another one.. plz help me!!! It was a lady and a guy and it started off like this- wakin up on a sunny day taking a walk in the month of may our bags are packed let's be on our way Megan's(ur name) taking a walk today. There was one about where are we and something like every place you go has it's own show right down the block right to Bangkok from near or far by foot or car you can have fun where ever you are. There was a barnyard thing and the guy would do the animal noise and kids would do it back. Please help me find this!! I grew up listening to it every night and I'd love to be able to listen to it again. Oh, and each tape has the name of the name they say on it.

Is there a word for someone who has a lot of animals but takes care of them?

i know animal hoarders have a huge amount of animals but fail to realize that they don't have the ability to take care of all of them. is there a word for a person who has a huge amount of animals but has the ability to take care of them/loves them all/the animals get as much love, attention, and needs that they need? also if this person who takes care of the animals is a misanthrope(hates the human race) and just stays with their animals all day :) find me a word for that??

My boyfriends mom doesnt want him to grow up?

Okay so my boyfriends mom is a very manipulative woman.She always wants things to go her way. Her husband is sick and she doesn't work.He gives her like 600 $ a month and doesn't even live there. She is a hoarder and spends money like crazy. She refuses to work because she is starting this ministry. My boyfriend and I have been best friends for 8 years and about a 1 1/2 years ago we started dating. He moved in and everything was great. We are happy our families were happy it was all wonderful. Well we have been talking about buying a house because I have a 4 year old and we are in an apartment. Well he tells his mom and she says well why would you want to house payments and he says we would only have one. And then she says well what about mine. Then every time we see her which is like 2-3 times a week she says oh you are never home you never come see me BLAH BLAH BLAH. He doesn't live with them and we see them very often. Well we were at dinner last night and his mom was basically trying to auction him off to this waitress and was telling her about his life story and I was sitting right there. The she goes on for 5 Min's after he tells her she is being rude and disrespectful that he is a hypocrite and he never goes to see her and he says mom im trying to live my life. This is an on going issue and im worried it is going to ruin out relationship. I don't know what to do please help

Should I read the first game Of thrones book before the 2nd? I watched the tv show.?

I watched the hbo series game of thrones and I want to read the books but indent want to waste my time with the first book if it's very similar to the show. Do I have to read it before I start the second book or is it close enough to the tv show I can skip to book 2?

Whats ur favorite pink scent?

fresh&clean, fruity&bright, sweet&flirty, soft&dreamy, pretty&pure, warm&cozy, sunny&happy, cool&carefree whats ur favorite and what do each smell like?

Condom keeps falling off..?

I've not had sex for a couple years until recently. Me and a girl I've been dating have started having casual sex. However, 2 times in the past couple weeks, the condom has fallen off. This has NEVER happened to me before, so I don't know why it's happening. I'm a little over 7 inches long and 5.5 in girth, so I don't think it's a size issue. I know the first time I wasn't fully erect because I was having issues with a medication I was taking, but last night it was fine. The lining of the condom was even indented on my shaft. The condom was fully extended, as well. We do not use lube, but the girl I am with is always well lubed, naturally, after some foreplay, so it's not an issue there either. I really don't know what to do. She's not on birth control, yet, and neither of us want a kid at this time... lol. The only thing I can think of is that she'll start pulsating and get really tight after we go for a bit and it might get pulled off from that, but I don't think so because, like I've said, this has never happened to me in the past. It's just a little embarrassing for the both of us, and mood killing.

Help with moving out at 16?

Hi Luke, there is nothing wrong with what you plan to do. You can legally leave home at 16, and you seem to have it all planned out effectively, best wishes to you for the future.

Helpful details or advice on how to cope with "loss"?

I'm speaking about loss of like material things. Like for an example my family is doing this whole Spring cleaning thing and they have thrown out some of my things already (things from my past) and I guess I'm required to get rid of a lot of stuff too to make room. These things mainly entail papers, drawings, notes, letters, etc. from my past that I find to be important to me. When they get destroyed or thrown away I feel as though that's a part of my memory that is being destroyed. I don't think I'm a hoarder because my room is quite exquisite in regards to cleanliness but I have like all of these stuff from my past (in boxes) that I now have to give up. I'm trying to hide as much as I can but I know inevitably it will have to go. Any good ways in dealing with this loss that will happen?

Help! what is this book series?

There is a book series about a young guy (late teens –early twenties) who lives with his grandparents and assists the police with solving mysteries. He has supernatural powers (psychic, seeing spirits, premonitions) that sort of thing. His girlfriend is named Sunny.

How much Should I Sell my Kittens for?

Well, first off, make sure they are healthy before you give them away. Make sure the people you are selling/giving the kittens/cats are responsible, and i think you should sell them for $0.50 + how much it cost for spayed/neutered. Please, I repeat! PLEASE give them to responsible people! I don't want anyone harming the cat/kittens. I love animals

How can I stop an old lady from hoarding?

You don't. Hoarding is usually a result of emotional distress and must be treated professionally. Even if you somehow convince her to clean the house at one point, she will continue hoarding and be back to the "normal".

Am I compulsive hoarder?

Well,I would at least TRY to stop this yourself.Try once a day to actually throw away one or two pieces of trash. Continue adding more and more. If this doesn't work,See a psychologist. But make that a last resort :D

Stocking and harrassment charges?

This crazy lady down my road stole my cat. Immediately after my sister adn nephew seen my cat in their yard, we called the police. The next day, somebody else called the police for her taking their cat as well. The police told me to just basically if i see my cat to take it. The problem is that she is trying to keep me away from her house cause my sister, nephew, and a guy in the neighborhood seen her son holding it outside. It took 4months to get this far, & she will not let anybody in her house not even the cops. The first time the cops showed up, she didn't answer the door adn his been hiding in her house. However, she seen my sister taking pictures of her house as evidence that she was really home and she was. She seen my sister, but she thinks i called the police the second time and i didn't. It was somebody else. Anyways, are these charges legit & wat extent do they hold for? She hasn't done it, but she basically wants my cat and is a cat hoarder. She is also pretty psychotic and vengeful. It's frustrating cause she might get away with my cat, and there is nothing i can do about it. However, i have three people who saw it and a second person who claimed the same thing on her

Social, economic and environmental factors of ...?

Both the economic and environmental reasons you have given are mostly positive. Your reason of sociology is at odds with the other two because death is generally regarded in most cultures as a negative result, and is therefore not positive.If you would like to read a short essay on other good reasons concerning sun exposure, see #1 below.

Guinea Pig Vaginal Bleeding?

I rescued a female guinea pig from a hoarder about two weeks ago who said she is 1 year and 3 months old. At the time she had two babies, I do not know how old they were, they were taken by another rescuer. After cleaning her up, she seems healthy, has a good appetite, urine and stools look normal. Yesterday I was letting her walk around with my other two female guinea pigs, they got in a verbal quarrel, but did not bite each other. I have them separated obviously. Anyway I noticed a while afterwards that she had a few drops of blood, so I cleaned her cage and put her in it, after a while of spotting it stopped. Once again today, I took my 3 guinea pigs outside, all females, this time no contact with each Other. After I put her back in her cage a few hours later I noticed the same thing, spotting. It's not a stream of blood, it is not related to her urine, and she is not showing any signs of pain, just spotting that lasts an hour and then goes away. My mom thinks she is in heat, however this never happened with my other two females. Otherwise I am wondering if she was pregnant and now miscarriaging, but it doesn't seem like enough blood for that. Does anyone have any experience with this? Please do not tell me to go to a vet, I just spent a ton of money with different vets nursing my other rescue back to health. Due to finances, the vet is not an option this time. Suggestions? Thanks!

Im 29yrs old & always tired and lazy?

I never want to do anything. I've been like this for a little over a year, and it seems to be getting worse. All I want to do is lay around in bed, I take naps a lot throughout the day and sometimes can't fall asleep at night because of all my naps. I have 4 kids who are not babies anymore, and while im in my lazy mode my husband will take care of them. I feel like I have no energy to do anything or even play with my kids,or take them to the park or pool or ride there bikes because I feel so tired. And from me feeling so tired I feel like im always sick, ill always say my stomach hurts or I have a headache or ant excuse. And im never in the mood to have sex because I feel exusted and no energy. I will be honest I don't take vitamins because im scared to swallow pills I ain't even take meds for a headache. I don't exercise. I do nothing but lay in bed and watch TV. I just stopped working 3months ago in April I got fired because I didn't want to do anything but sit around,i worked at that job for 15yrs.and I've tried to fix this problem and I can't. What can I do to fix this problem does anyone have any ideas? Please. I need to be here for my kids. I feel like that show hoarders or addicted but in a different sense im addicted to being lazy! Please someone give me some advise!

How do you structure dialogue?

in a book how do you structure the dialogue. I wanted to wright a book but can't seem to find anything about the structure of the dialogue. How to indent or space it. Help?

Ok, random topic……parents, nature vs. nurture?

It's a combination of both. That is my opinion at least. I say that from personal experience. My family has a long history of mental illness and my dad actually does have OCD. I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder at 21 and prior to that I was misdiagnosed at the age of at and at aged 16 with other mental conditions. I had a hard time adjusting to a normal life in part due to how my dad raised me and in part to my own mental illness. Luckily, I decided as an adult to get treatment and I am in control of keeping my mental issues out of how I raise my own son and so far he doesn't seem to exhibit any genetic predisposition to mental illness. Not all children of mentally ill people will be born with mental illness and that is a relief. In fact I have two younger sisters and neither of them have mental illness and lead perfectly normal lives, though due to some of my dads issues (he has never agreed to get treatment for his OCD. After being diagnosed he blew off the doctor as a quack) and they have learned to work through some of those issues and yes, it was easier for them than me because, they were not mentally ill. (Just fyi, I do lead a totally normal life now that I am on medication and go to therapy regularly. )

Did Canadians have fun today, Canada Day?

Oh yes,I had a great day in Arnprior which held a nice car show and a nice selection of beautiful cars and the day was just terrific,I,m glad I,m a Canadain.Rock On.

What is the meaning of "I don't think so" ?

when you ask someone if it will be sunny tom. and they say "i don't think so" and you ask someone if they will get married and they say "i don't think so" is there a difference between the two things ? cause the first one is if you think something will happen and the second one is proposing some sort of idea ?

My mom is a hoarder...how to deal with it..?

well my mom has her clutter only in my room. Some stuff are just storage and things that she hides from my step-dad cuz he is a very nosey person. The problem is that sometimes there is so much clutter that i want to clean but i have to ask permission to my mom when i do. If i just clean and if my mom will look for something and she can't find it, she always blame me for it. I have to deal with her slight memory loss problem, she forgets things easily. How can i deal with this? I want to clean my room but how can i if do it if my mom doesn't really let me touch her things (and it's all over my room!) Thanks for listening...

White spots on teeth that look like indents and now there brushing away to reveal grey spots? or is it just?

or is it just food stuck in it that i cant brush out. i think i have demineralization and im scared. i am going to the dentist the 15th. my heart is pounding really really fast and im freaking out :(

What are more country and rap songs mixed together?

Not a big rap or county music lister but i recently heard this by Jason Aldan "Dirt road anthem" there is some rapping in it. Well to me it sounds like it?

What would you like to ask?my mother in law is a hoarder.?

my mother in law is very controlling, she is a paper and clothes hoarder and loves manipulating little kids. my boyfriend, 4mth old, 4yr old and i live with her. our old apt had water damage and mole on the ceiling so we moved in with her. she begs and cries for us not to leave plus she needs help with the rent, so we stay. yet she wont remove all of the old mags, boxes full of paper and old clothes out of the house. the mags are dated all the way back to the 90s and so are the clothes that belong to my boyfriend and his sister. my boyfriend is 27 and his sister is 35, neither wants the clothes. but she wont throw them out or give them away. the living room is full of bags and boxes so we cant have a living room set which we offer to buy and the kids cant have a space to play. my son is a baby and needs to have space to learn how to crawl around. she keep saying she is going to clean it and does want our help but never does. we had to take the boxes and things out of the room our daughter sleeps in but she just pile all into her room . we can we do to get her to remove the things out of the house? we are willing to pay for storage, but she wont remove the things from the house.and keeps adding new stuff like shipping barrels that she doesnt need. plus she drinks about 7 cans of beer a day. she wasnt like this before she received her master's from howard university and been to china and africa doing activist work. could she just be bored with life now that she is older. her old friends try reaching out but she lies and dont return their calls. is there any help that will can get her?

I have a ton of old AOL CDs?

I've been teased as hoarder for not polluting. I always thought I could write over and reuse them. Don't want to recycle into a craft. I can figure that out. Is there a simple way, for novice as me to get passed the write protect. AOL should have a key, but just try to contact them. They should be in trouble for all the waste. They should have to take back and recycle. Anyway I digress. How do I do this?

Belly button rejection?

My belly button was pierced before and my body rejected it. The skin over the piercing literally got so thin that it broke off and now I have a nasty scar/ indent(hard to describe). I want to get rid of the "scar" so i can get it re-pierced, how do i do it ?(and i'd rather not get the bottom or sides done).

I feel incredibly lonely?

Sometimes I feel incredibly sad depressed and lonely Like no body wants to hang out with me or talk to me. I have friends but I don't think they care about me as much as I care about them it seems like they never listen to me when I really need them, I'm always there for all of them when they are sad but when I'm sad they just leave me by my lonesome and hang out with others. I'm totally in love with this boy at my school I've never felt like this before sounds a little cheesy and stupid, but I really Like him he's quite and funny. But he likes someone else, a really popular girl that had a lot of friends and is pretty that I could never value up to. I don't see anyone ever loving me because there is always someone with better looks, personality and everything else than me. None of my friends understand me and I don't dare talk to my parents about this because they will most liking put me in therapy. I dot want to go to a mental institute. I don't see myself as very pretty just average, thin and pale skinned. I don't know what to do the only thing I have to look forward to is maybe one day getting close to the love of my life and my best friend that I don't see alot but is the funniest person on the planet and makes me happy. But even er can't understand my depression. I get the urge to cut myself a lot and do drugs but I don't because if my life sux already indent want my body to go down the drain too. Sometimes I'm very happy and when I am I have alot of energy and do and say things with out thinking this usually results in me embarrassing myself in front of the boy I love and other people. Then I go back to being depressed and feeling utterly stupid. It's a vicious cycle that never ends. I guess I'm just looking for advice or something I dint know what to do or where to turn, I guess ranting on here won't change anything but I don't know what else to do

How do I become less attached to things?

Things in my life that I remember seeing/hearing/looking at/using as a child really mean a lot to me, even if it's something stupid like a toaster. I really wish I wasn't like that, so I could have less stuff at home. Whenever I even think about giving something away, I try to get that thought out of my head. Now, I'm not a hoarder, it's just the things that I remember even slightly are hard to part with. Books, in particular, I absolutely can't stand losing. I realize that it's stupid to feel that way, but I still do. How can I become less attached to my stuff?

How can we get our dog out of the corner and unafraid of people?

We are fostering a black lab mix who was rescued from a hoarder with 60 dogs who constantly fought. He has severe social issues and is not housebroken. He will hide in the corner for a very very long time with out moving an inch. He is disinterested in anything we try to lure him out with and have tried just leaving him alone. Any tips on how to break these habits?

Would it be safe to put a drum set on hard wood floors?

Would it be safe to put a drum set on hard wood floors? Like, would it put indents (ect) on the wood floor? Or should I put like a rug under it, or put something under it where it touches the floor? Or is it OK for it to rest on the floor?

Tooth question! is it a cavity? ?

On my right molar, there is a small indent. In the indent it's blackish-gray. It doeant hurt at all. Is this a cavity?

Who loves Egpyt, who has been?

I have been on holiday to Egypt 6 times now and i just love it there, i want to move there when i turn 18 and i think i will. I just love the weather , it is sunny all the time and soo warm , even the air is warm and when it rains which is hardly ever , the rain is warm :) also i love the history behind it and the pyramids are amazing and there is so many beautiful places to visit, i love going shopping there and walking down the egypt streets , it is soo relaxing and you can smell apple shisha in the air and hear beaituful egyptain music, also the local people there , the egyptains are soo fun to make friends with , they are so friendly and full of life, the rotana cafes , ( shisha bars ) are amazing i love shisha and camel rides are awsome , the sunset and sky is better in egpyt that anywere i just love everything about Egypt, i think i am obsessed, DOES ANYONE AGREE AND SHARE ME OBSESSION FOR EGYPT? please comment and say what you love about it :) xx

Who can I call about a hoarder?

I know somebody who lives outside my town who is an animal hoarder. The animal control won't go out there because it is too far. The cops won't go-they told me to call animal control! Who can I call for help?

Went and saw my doctor he said early labor?

Been having contractions all night long in my back for the most part. Baby is sunny side up and after talking to the doctor I'm going to try and not have a c-section if at all possible. He said labor can be long and difficult. Sat I was at 2 centimeters dilated and 0% effaced. Today when he checked me I'm now at 3 centimeters 30% effaced. I tried my hardest to take a short nap I was so tired. When I woke up I thought awesome! The contractions are gone wrong! Now they are getting stronger. Doctor said to walk and keep walking. I'm going to do the walking some more but any ideas what else I can do to help? I don't want to go to the hospital until I have too. Thanks

Is it possible to be an actor if you dont have really smooth, perfect skin?

I am 16 and my scars are getting better with retin A. I know there is already a lot of competition in the acting world, but on top of that, I have slight acne scars. I don't have cystic acne or anything like that but I look at people like Will Smith, Leonardo Dicaprio, Dustin Hoffman and most actors and they have clear flawless skin. I dont want to chase my dreams if they wont even accept me. I have red marks along the side of my face, and small indent scarring near my eyebrows. I just want to know if theres any chance I can be a big screen actor if I have scarring. What im scared about is the certain angles and lighting they film that actors in and how that might reveal the indents on my skin. I really want to chase this dream badly. Thank you for your time and answers.

What to wear? (makeup, clothes, hairstyle)?

i use dinair airbrush makeup and it is amazing! they have these really fun stencils and you can make really cool designs around your eyes. it might be awesome for the 4th! i have been using their makeup for a really long time and i love their stuff! they actually let me email in my picture and then they just told me which of their shades to get...it made it super easy...i love their stuff!

I really need help..someone please?

Well, yes. I am a hoarder. I am only 15 years old, but it's a little bit serious. I hoard real id friends. Real id friends is basically friends on a game I play, called World Of Warcraft. I have an obsession with reaching the friend-limit. I just removed all the friends I don't talk to. I used to have about 100 friends, now I only have 15 friends. I am depressed and lonely. I don't know why. Is this hoarding? I also have been noted to collect socks and other jewelry. I need help. I have an urge to add the friends back. I do not know what to do about this, I have a headache..I just want to fix myself

How do I stop my dad from digging through trash?

My dad is a hoarder and pulls broken crud out of the trash. He digs out stiff like broken tiles and dishes, empty pill bottles, etc. He's not recycling. He just piles it into the garage or basement. He even pulls my dirty underwear out and packs them into the already over-stuffed garage. This is really creeping me out. How do I stop him?

My house is a pig stye. i cannot keep organized?

I have massive clutter and it overwhelms me. I am afraid to invite people over. How can i get this all under control. I am a single momof a 3 year old son, wrk and go to school. I dont wanna end up on that hoarders show. I have massive amounts of clothes n shoes and they just find a way on the bed and i push them to the side to sleep at night. Please help. It streses me out living like this

What's wrong with me? I've gone to doctors and all they do is give me depression meds. HELP?!?!?

Get off ALL caffeine including tea, coffee, chocolate, red bull other sodas. Caffeine is one of the most damaging drugs and cause anxiety, odd thoughts, panic attacks, sleeplessness and depression. You will get a terrible headache and you should come off slowly but your depression and anxiety will disappear. Also, only uses soap and creams that are hypo-allergenic. Even using certain face creams can give you horrible side effects. Industry bombards us with chemicals that cause depression including medication. Try it. Live as cleanly and simply as possible and you will become completely well you won't believe it.

Can someone help me with a Spyro problem?

Ok so my little sister is playing Spyro Year of the Dragon. She usually has me help her with the challenges and some flying. So she is stuck in Sunny Vale (I think that's what its called) to this skate park where Hunter wants her to catch lizards. I tried it several times but I can't do it. When Spyro goes straight up, after hitting the lizard, he falls off the board. Every time. I don't know how to get passed this challenge. I've looked online at walk throughs, cheats, and hints and can't find anything. How do I keep Spyro from falling off the board so I can get past this challenge and my little sister can finish the game?

My best friend said "I love you"?

So I'll give you some background info before I get to the main question. I've known my best friend since the summer after my freshman year in high school. I had actually thought he was cute and asked for his number. we talked for awhile, hung out, a few kisses here and there but nothing serious we were in high school and it only lasted a couple months. We're both 23 now. We decided that we loved being around eachother but that we werent meant to be a couple, complete opposites really; hes the sports fanatic mellow guy, and I'm more do my own thing stubborn type ha. But we truly became best friends, we were and still are inseparable, tell eachother things we've never told anyone, he talks to me about girls, I've talked to him about guys etc and he's actually going to be one of my "bridespeople" lol (please no rude remarks about that he doesn't really want to but knows it means alot to me so hes going along with it thanks). Anyway about a year ago i moved in with my boyfriend who is now my fianc�e actually, we started hanging out less but still do, we talk alot but obviously I'm getting married so mt fianc�e is #1 guy (I dont want my fianc�e to be worried some guys do) Anyway a couple days ago my friend and I were hanging out he was helping me detail my car when he found this note that a guy from work had written me a month before stuffed under my seat (I'm a paper hoarder I rarely through things out lol) the guy from my work wrote that he really liked me (basically a love note he was a bit weird/shy so i was nicer to him at work than most people and he took it the wrong way which I explained after he gave it to me) anyway so my friend was reading this laughing saying that this guy sounded like a chick blah blah then he read out loud from the note "I really like the way you curl your hair at work sometimes" he started laughing so did I but then he looked at me and said "Thats like me telling you that I love you because you straighten your hair" then I laughed and so did he. But I thought it was odd. He threw "love" into it when the note hadn't said that, and even though we're very close hes never told me he loves me. Is this odd am I taking it out of context or is there a meaning behind this? And i should add that I do have another good friend (whom I've known since middle school) who is convinced he still cares for me. I love my fianc�e and do not want to leave him, but do not want to be put in any type of awkward situation. If anyone has advicee it'd be helpful thanks.

Is this piece good? Please read everything?

To be honest, it's really bland and I found myself drifting away time to time. Sorry to say it but it's just not all that.

I think I might be adopted?

You look like your mum to me. Allowing that you re-shaped your eyes with makeup and tweezed your brows into that arch. post a pic without makeup so we can better compare.

I need help now please?

okay so me and my boyfriend live about five minutes away and he can drive. he's always joking that he will kidnap me one day, but i'm really scared he will. i have no problem with that because i trust him, but i live in a hoarder house. it's not me, but my family and that's the reason why i've never invited him over or anybody at all. what do i do? what if he finds out the secret i've always kept being my own home???? how do i keep him away???

It'd be cool to have a mom?

You seem to be a very nice person & maybe someday you'll meet a co-worker or a friends' parent that you can look up to as a parental figure. Don't give up but seriously, I don't think Yahoo Answers is the place to look for a motherly figure. Good luck to you.

What if a hoarder get his/her way?

As a hypothetical, what if a hoarder happen to have a very wealthy family member, who instead of trying to stop the hoarding just increases the house size and arranges the mess, making it impossible for the hoarder to actually affect anyone around it? Will they still see the value of their hoarding? Will they become discourage in their actions?

Am I messed up from my childhood? (10pts)?

I've has similar things just like this.. I think you're lacking morale support to be perfectly fair, you honestly cannot do anything about the family you are with. I'm praying for you. I'm actually here for you if you need a friend to talk to..

Is Seoul usually cloudy?

I'm visiting Seoul very soon, and since I've heard so many good things about it, I'm actually very excited. I've seen many pictures, however, most of them portray Seoul in a dismal, cloudy weather; it's hard to find pictures where Seoul is sunny. Is Seoul usually dark like that?

I need a description of a beach?

I want to describe the beach but the normal sunny day, waves crashing, happy and bright... I want to describe it differently *thinking outside the box*... So, can I please have some ideas of description which is a bit different. Thanks ;)

My wife is Bi-Polar Manic Depressive and a hoarder...is she an unfit mother?

If she is an unmedicated bi-polar who has that many problems getting by, yes the court will deem her unfit. You need ot file for custody for the safety of your children. Hopefully that will be the wake up call she needs to see she needs to get help.

Slow performance???????????????????

Recently my PC has become dead slow. I've been download quite alot of software and it was on for two days without a rest. It was burning a DVD. I have a laptop. It takes ages for files to loads and I have been experiencing system crashes where applications freeze. I have norton installed and there are no viruses showing up. What has changed because my system was working fine about 4 days ago. It's very sunny here would that effect it because I'm right by the window

Could transparent umbrella tinted help acne?

If red/blue (and other colors) lights are proven to be of benefit to the skin & body; could transparent umbrellas (with a proper U.V. protection) tinted those colors be useful (in certain sunny conditions)? Any dermatologists here?

HELP with my messy house?

Wow! And I thought it was just me who's house explodes in one day. Glad to find out it isn't . I would be after my husband all the time to help me. Help me with things like doing his laundry and keeping his bathroom clean, and cleaning up his own mess in the kitchen. We have no children, only the four legged ones that bark and yet I still had to clean up the outdoor potty area every other day. Yes we both worked for years and years then he retired and I was laid off. We have been married thirty five years as of yesterday. My husband died two months ago of bone cancer. I will aways be sorry for not being a better wife. Why didn't I do his laundry? Or clean his bathroom as it really wasn't his fault he was like that. His Dad died when he was a tiny boy and his Mom raised him alone and did everything for him.After all, back in those days it all was woman's work and that is how he grew up thinking that was the way it was.I miss him so much and would wait on him hand and foot if I had him back again. You know I used to follow my husband around to cleaning up after him.I feel I was a rotten wife and a *itch for not taking care of him the way I should have. I just wanted to tell you this story,I don't know why. You know what? My house still explodes even without him. Maybe it is me!

How do i handle my lazy family?

I am a single mom with an 8 and 6 year old. I live in a 3br 2ba apartment. My brother and sister in law have twin teens and a 10 yr old. I work 40 hrs/wk, neither of them work. I get irritated by this, because they LOVE to watch their TV! He gets some form of disability, she gets major food stamps. They were in a place but had to leave on 4/1, so they are now staying with me. It's supposed to be temporary bc they are leaving to missouri in July. I can't stand having so much crap in my house. I can't stand all the TV they watch. I can't stand them being loud and boisterous til past my kids bedtime. And I'm hurt that my kids would rather hang with them than me. They are still here because they want the boys to graduate middle school before they leave. Well, we went to MO last week, it was beautiful. I want to move to but the jobs pay slightly more than half of what I make. Since they're on a fixed income, things would be better bc rent & gas are cheaper... But for me, I don't see myself giving up a little over $2000 in take home pay, even if my rent does go slighly down. Anyway, now they're over here again, moping around bc they would rather be in MO. The night we got back, I was so damn tired bc I did not sleep the whole way - 12 hours! Sis in law - slept the whole time! So, my son is walking around I'm hungry. I said can you ask the boys, I need to rest. No, I had to get up and cook for ALL of them while she sat her fat *** (we're talking over 400lbs EACH!!!) watching reality shows. They watch Storm Chasers, Swamp People, Storage Wars, American Idol, Yes Dear, Oprah, Jersey Shore, Extreme Couponing, Hoarders, and the list goes on and ON!!! I like watching tv too, but i mostly do it after the kids go to bed or on the weekends. And I admit, I hardly ever cook; me & mine eat out half the week. But i WORK ALL DAY! They do ****. And the week we were in MO, we didn't go to any festivals or parks, or museums, or local events... they made sure we knew where all the Wal-Marts were, though!!! I'm so tired of them. How do I get through this next two months? How do I deal with their bullcrap, their hogging the TV, their lights on at night, their ADHD kids, their depression? I'm so sick of it!!! I believe everyone should work, I don't know how they can be happy with themselves this way...

Why do slobs expect show homes when buying?

They have a mental picture of the house with them in it. But if you're a minimalist people do need to see some knick knacks or object'da for some kind of perspective. If you have everything sparkly, it's an indicator the house was well looked after, ready for immediate handover. All you want to do is sell the house, what the new owners do after that is up to them.

There is a vein on top of my right arm near my wrist that is really bizarre. any ideas to what is wrong?

Ok since about last week my hand has been bothering me, especially with movement (aka opening and closing it) I don't recall injuring it, but my job is physically demanding at times. Anyway, most of my veins on my right hand look larger and more raised than my left hand. but what is more concerning to me is a large vein on the top left side of my right arm that begins to bulge out about 2 inches from my wrist. To the touch its super squishy, slightly dark and raised when laying normally. but If I rotate my wrist to the right it indents. It feels tender to the touch and I have a feeling its the source of my hand pain. Any ideas as to what it could be? I'd hope everyone can spare me the "go to the doctor if you're so concerned" comments.... i do plan on going if I don't see a change, but I'm just trying to get a little insight.... thanks! Oh, and I'm female in my late 20's.

I have a heart murmur?

So i was the doctor for a normal check up and she said I have a heart murmur.. she blamed it on my indented chest that was pressing against my heart.. she didn't explain anything... everyone is worried for me.. but i don't even know what it is! If anyone can explain what's wrong with me and what to expect at the cardiologist

Spotty skin? holidays ? help?

heat rash? When I went to my friend's cottage last summer, I laid out in the sun for like a couple hours on a really hot day, and then my whole body (except my face) was covered in bumps, they were red-hot and from afar looked like a bad sunburn, up close they were just raised red bumps everywhere! could that be it? I had the bumps for four days, but if you stay out of the sun it'll get better

Help, What can I do about my mom being an animal hoarder?

You will have to anonymously report her to the city. Every city has ordinances that prevent too many pets. People mean well, but they have to face reality. They can't really take good care of more than 3 or 4 pets at a time. It becomes more of a zoo than a good home, and zoos are for wild animals not pets.

Im pretty skinny but i want to be skinnier so my abbs show?

hello im 15 and im pretty skinny id say. but i really want a 6 pack its been my goal for awhile now. ive donw p90x and insanity, but i never did the whole thing i only did the abb routines for them. my BMI is 18, which is just over underweight i suppose, but i heard you have to have a bmi of 12 to have your abbs really show. i way around 115 i believe maybe a pound less, and im 5"6 maybe slightly taller. if i lay down and there is really shadowy lighting then i can kinda see a 4 pack, but when i stand up it disapears into my stomach. i want to get it so it really shows well when i stand up. i do things like crunches situps, abb workouts that i got from p90x, and lately ive been doing stuff with a 10 lb medicine ball because abbs are like a muscle the more you weight you use the bigger they get. i have protein shakes and protein bars i usually do to enhance my workout. but i guess wht im trying to say is how should i lower my bmi? no i am not anorexic or trolling or whtever.i just want it to show better and i do eat alot but its mostly all healthy stuff. im also a male if this helps. my personal trainer at golds gym said i was just right to get a 6pack but it doesnt come out no matter how much i do. if i pull back my skin very tightly i can see a pretty indented 6pack but when i let go you cant really see it. so should i lower my bmi? if so, how? and or should i just keep working my aba until they pop over my skin more?

Good name for a character?

Okay, so I'm trying to write this book about a girl whose parents were sort of hippie, and they named her something weird. I'm trying to come up with a good name for her, do you guys have any ideas? I was thinking maybe the name 'Sunny', but I didn't know if it was too common or not. So, anyone know of any good hippie names? Thanks a bunch!

If you could ban only ONE of these, what one?

I couldn't choose just one, but if I had to, it would be the same ones that you said. I didn't even know that there was a market for dog fur, and even if there was, why on earth would they skin them alive??? (Even Cruella DeVille was going to kill them for their fur...)

How does college showering with curtains work?

youll take a shower cady which is like a basket type thing you put all your hygein products in and carry to the shower. Youll have privacy youll take your stuff in there and change in the shower but ALWAYS WEAR FLIP FLOPS bacteria breeds in this area athletes foot ect. nasty. but youll change and put take your towel with you if htere isnt gonna be any dry area in teh shower to sit your stuff ontop of your shower cady then you can just set it right out side your shower so you can kinda see it so nobody takes it. and after your shower dry off adn i prefer to put on like shorts and t shirt wrap my hair up in a towel adn walk back to my room then chagne into my good clothes bc you may still be wet... this is just what i do some places its different you can ask your roomate im sure hell understand Good luck :) also better then coed showers where its a big open room no curtians and girls and guys shower in them

Why do i look so fat in my reflection outside?

Outside i have a screen door that i constantly look at my "butt" making sure its not too big,. With the mirros and even cameras that i use and see i always look normal, but when its sunny and i go outside and look at my relection i feel literally sick to my stomach. Its been ruining all my days and its been getting out of control. Niow does ur relection make you bigger then some mirrors because this is seriouusly anoying me so much...hlep plzzz

Lady wants to keep my cat?

Ok, so I have this one cat. He ended up getting ringworm all over his body. Since it was really hard washing him on my own, even though I tried for a few months, after those few months, he just didn't let me wash him. He would wiggle away, climb, etc. Also at the time, I was having some domestic issues, with one of my siblings, so I found this one lady, who advertised herself as having like a shelter, and taking care of animals. She took him in for a while, I still kept the documents and everything, and I never signed away my cat. So he became better, and I at the same time found out that this lady is actually a hoarder, and neglects a lot of her animals. So I naturally wanted my cat back. So I knew since she's a hoarder, she probably won't give him up that easily, I kind of tricked her into giving my cat back, and before I could get into the car, she started screaming, circling me, going crazy basically. She even put her foot in the door, preventing me from leaving. I left, but she still harasses me every day on the phone, comes up to my house, sends people over, has people call me from different numbers, etc. I called the police, and they said how I should solve the matter with her, but they don't realize that this lady is actually harassing and stalking me at this point, and isn't well. She also sent me this message saying, I fed the cat, I got him better, so it's not fair for you to keep him. What should I do? I never told her she could permanently keep him, and it was explicit for her to help him get better....Any advice? Thanks.

Does my mom have anger issues?

Your mom's problems most likely have nothing to do with you, it is most likely because you are there, I mean, available for her to let her anger out. She has to talk to someone that can solve her real issues, to let out what is bothering her.

Slowly falling into depression; this isnt me?

Ouch! Sounds like your caught in a catch22. Have you spoken to your Dad about this? Because your a minor, there is no way you can get out, unless your Dad gets custody of you. You have to just make sure thats what you want. Family is family, you have to stick up for each other. Just also think of your brothers.

Why are more men going towards me?

I've been pretty upset with my boyfriend lately for various and really good reasons. I don't like drama and get mad because it's sunny outside.. Anyways it's making me sort of withdraw.. I don't like the criticism and finding odd things like messages from girls on facebook and such... Anyways to my point... I feel all of a sudden more men are hitting on me...they weren't as much as before... why???

How do I help my hoarder mother clean?

I'm only a teenager and I've tried being nice, mean, and I've even recommended a counselor. She doesn't want treatment and she can't throw things away. She buys tons of things because they're on sale or she has coupons. How do I help her clean? I've tried sitting down with and helping her clean but nothing stays clean. The house only gets worse. I don't think she truly has a clue how depressed I am due to the house. How can I help her?

How can you work out your chest?

well its not really the chest. i have an indent kind of thing just under where the ribs connect in the middle. Is there anyway to cover that? Any exercises to cover it with muscle?

How do I stop getting upset over inanimate objects?

I'm not exactly sure but almost sounds like you have an obsessive compulsive disorder. You have to tell yourself it is just in your mind and nothing bad is going to happen. I had similar mild case I overcame through my faith in Christ and convinced nothing bad would happen.

Why do I have stretch marks? Can someone please answer, it doesn't make sense?

it is just the luck of the draw kid,some people get stretch marks from smiling and others seem to get none after delivering twins.

Disposal of American flags?

as far as the toothpicks and little flags like that, just throw them in the trash. as for a cloth flag, there is a "proper" way to dispose of it. it should be burnt while taps is playing. but if you have no way of doing that, just take it to your nearest VFW post and let them decide what to do with it.

Help me find my inner Mary Poppins, Please?

I wish to be more organized. I've tried my best to do it myself, but I always get frustrated, overwhelmed and I give up. In the end, my house is still way past due for an episode of Hoarders, and I go to bed stressed. Advice?

I'M SO BORED I'M GONNA CRY!!?

since you are an animal lover,there are tons of animals in this world that need homes. Start a web site for placing unwanted animals in decent homes,it can be time consuming so get off your *** and start doing things. Call USPCA for helping them. The longer you sit,the more bored you"ll become.

What is this thing thats hanging in my kitchen?

about 30 years ago i bought a round copper pan like object..it has a black handle a good two feet and the copper pan is about 20 inches across...it has 7 round indents with the reverse side dome shaped..it looks very nice in my new england kitchen but what is it?..its too big for an oven..and the quality is far to superior for a copper novelty..i bought it in a antique shop.i also bought a rolling pin i was informed over 100 years old..how would you guess a rolling pins age?

I Can't Stop Hating Myself?

If there is one thing in life to count on it is that we are our own worst critic. We are the one that will be the most critical of ourselves. That tiny zit that may be sitting near the end of your nose is to you a HUGE pimple. Have you ever sat down with your mom and told her how you feel? Is she the type of mom that will listen and understand? If you think she is then talk to her. If not then maybe there is an aunt or grandmother you could talk to. How about a teacher? Anyone you feel you can trust to give you an honest opinion of how you look, and if anything needs to be done to help. One person NOT to ask is your brother. Many brothers can be like that. From what you say there is a beautiful girl inside you wanting to get out. Maybe she just needs some help, some direction as to what she can do to make that happen. If there is no one you can think of then you can call the national child help hotline. 1-800-4-A-child. What you say will be held in confidence. These people have been through a lot of situations such as yours before. So you are definitely not alone. When someone answers the phone they can help you directly or let you know of someone in your area that can help. Best of luck to you.

Hows my pokemon team?:)?

It looks like a pretty balanced team except there are two water types. I would suggest getting rid of one and replacing it with a tank pokemon. And remember, shiny pokemon aren't stronger then normal pokemon.

Is this a cold or allergies?

I've been really tired lately, despite going to bed early and my throat hurts. It hurt so bad this morning that I ended up waking up because I was dreaming that my throat hurt! I've been coughing so hard that my stomach hurts. I'm very phlegmy and have had to use my inhaler to just break it up. The thing is that it seems to only be happening at night and in the morning. I did stay at my mom's house for two days early in the week and she was doing construction on her place and while it's sad to say... my mom doesn't live in the best conditions (let's just say she could easily be on the show Hoarders).

Pimple/lump on vagina lip?!?

Ok, i clean EVERYDAY, but it judt showed up rabdomly so u popped it, which i know i should not have. Pus came out, followed by a massive scab whuch fell of in the bath noe its indented?!?!?!?!?!?! Will it heal and go away? Scaring wont be a problem as i always use bio oil

What kind of tourtise do i have?

i have a baby tourtise that was given to me it has a brown deep indented shell, and spots on its neck. help? :)

Should I let this lady keep my cat?

First of all I should state that I live in a city where there are no formal animal shelters. People find homes for animals on their own, but that's about it. So I found this one cat, he ended up getting ringworm all over his body, and I gave him to this lady, who runs a shelter. I ended up finding out later that her shelter is in really bad conditions, animals are covered in dirt, mud, some of them are starving, some of them are attacking one another for food, etc. The lady's very secretive, and even though I think she cares about animals to an extent, I think she might be a hoarder, and can't take care of all them. Now she's out of town, and from the little that I found out from her assistant, she keeps my cat in her apartment, and my cat just roams freely. The assistant washes my cat, but he still might have ringworm, because the lady and the assistant both got ringworm. Now assuming that this lady has a good heart, but just doesn't know how to handle all these animals, do you think she will faithfully keep my cat, or will she end up putting him in the same shelter or putting him on the street? By the way dogs and cats are in the same space I think. I'm not exactly sure.

Can dhs take our son if we tell them we are homeless?

I have a toddler and am 36 weeks pregnant. my mil is a hoarder. in the process of trying to clean to make a safe space for the new baby (we were living with them because it kept our bills low and helped them with theirs) she snapped tried to push me out a door and kicked me out. We are staying with family sleeping on the couch right now and there is a government program that can help us with the money we need to find a apt but we have to tell them we are homeless (no family couch even!) and im terrified they will take my son if I do. But we cant stay here forever and anyday now there will be a new baby as well what do I do

Does letting your Bermuda grass grow very high all summer allow it to spread easier over your lawn?

Cutting your grass weekly/biweekly keeps weeds out. The higher you let your grass get the more it's going to smother the seedlings and block the sun. It's necessary to cut the grass to allow for a thick beautiful lawn.

I dream of rocks falling from the sky. What does this mean?

I dreamed all night long of rocks falling from the sky. I kept running to different hidding places to get away from the rocks. I saw people running all over trying to escape the rocks. They were huge rocks and it was happening during a sunny day in my dream.

My iphone is broken !?

I went swimming and left my iphone on the table somewhat by the pool. It wasn't sunny out, because it was later in the day and i left it there for about two hours. I didn't get it wet, only a little. I got a few water drops on it but that has happened before and nothing ever happens. I was getting out of the pool and my iphone started doing random things. I turned it off and back on multiple times but it hasn't helped. I can somewhat text but when i go into an app it exits out of it and things pop up. Voice control keeps popping up to and my home screen keeps sliding to the search screen. It's almost as if a ghost is trying to use my phone. Nothing is working and verizon isn't open. I cannot wait until the morning when they open, i need to use my phone for important reasons so please help me, thanks !

I feel trapped, but i still love my mom. what do i do?

Hey there if you love your dad tell him if it is okay to mive in with him. Get a job any jib and when you have some money go ad really look for a musical job if that is what you serious about. Visit your mom often and if she doesn't want ti see you she will eventually and dint give-up on her leave her a voicemail and tell her you love her. Or ask a friend if you can mive in and get a job but make sure you have secured a job before you mive out and ask a friend ti pick you up so yor mom doesn't have to.

I'm not ready to die! HELP!!?

It sounds as though you possibly were abducted by aliens,had tests done on you,and brought back.If you start acquiring strange powers in the future,contact a href="http://www.iwasabducted.com/abductionboard/" rel="nofollow"http://www.iwasabducted.com/abductionboa…/a

Help I feel antisocial as hell..?

Most of the time I feel like being alone and round things I enjoy by myself but there will be sudden urges that make me feel alone and in need of love like a girlfriend and so I plan to go look for one the next day (this always happens at night or around midnight and when I wake up I have lost atleast 80% motivation and just feel like being alone again. Why do I feel better at night? I hate when it's all sunny out. Maybe because it's hit as hell here right now! Average 100 degrees

Custody rights of me?

I don't know about Missouri law but if your dad was that far behind he would deff be behind bars right now and lost just about everything he owns. and also yes you are at age to decide who you want to live with. Call legal aid or your attourny general.

How long do you think my acne will take to clear up? (PIC INCLUDED)?

Good hygiene, eating healthy and low stress should keep acne away. Try some great OTC products like Niapads, Cetaphil etc. Remember, the most effective treatment is one that is simple to use. For eg. cut a piece of Niapads, moisten it with water and place it on the yet to come to surface acne. Active ingredients penetrate skin and get rid of acne bacteria. Routine use of Niapads helps exfoliate, open clogged skin pores and gets rid of acne in one simple step without drying your skin. Contains Lavender oil – well known moisturizer.

How to shape up fast? Help please!?

How can i shape up in three days, I have a pool party i want to shape up in three days. I am already slim but i have a weird shape stomach and it indents. What can i do to shape it up. No gym please!

I'm 60lbs overweight and eat fast food everyday. I dont know where to start, breaking habits is hard! HELP!?

I'm a 25 yr old female and I was raised on fast food and therefore have little desire to cook home cooked meals. I have grown acustomed to "fake" foods. the good thing is I hate sweets so thats not a problem for me. I'm not an emotional eater either, but I do eat for taste. I compare my desperation to a hoarder. I feel like I've let myself get so out of control that I don't know where to start to get myself back in line. It also pisses me off when I try to reach out for help online but all anybody wants to offer is these "get thin quick" gimmicks with their pills and shakes and what not. I need real help, like a nutritionist or something. PLEASE!

Mom is a slob and a bit of a hoarder and it's causing trouble. Help?

well something must have happend to her and she has a hard time letting go of things she proabably lost something very importnant to her she needs to seek thearpy she needs help so get her help !goodlcuk

Did I contract OHSV-1 from my boyfriend?

Alright. So I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, beginning Feb. 1st and ending March 30th, then we starting dating again April 20th and we are still dating. In the time that we were not together (March 30th to April 20th) He had gone back to his ex-girlfriend. He said after the first time his ex and him broke up (before me and him met) He was tested for everything and he was clean. He was not tested again after this last time they dated and broke up when him and I started dating again. I have never even had a cold sore before in my life. He said he has had cold sores once in a while. About 2 weeks ago from today I started to see a patch of red bumps under my nose. They did not itch or swell, they are just red. They are still under my nose now, red and dry and flaky. A week ago my boyfriend got a cold sore on his lip. He was looking online and he read herpes and he has been really freaking himself and I out by this. Today I was brushing my teeth and I noticed my gums were sore just above my two front teeth. After I finished brushing, I looked and I saw a very small red indent on my gum above the two front teeth. I am scared to death, we are both freaking out. I want to get everything straight. 1. Do we both have HSV-1? 2. How do we know for sure? 3. Can the doctor test if there are no open sores? 4. Could he have contracted it from his ex when me and him were not together or because he has gotten cold sores before has he always had it? 5. Can the HSV-1 turn into HSV-2? 6. If one of us were to preform oral on the other, would we contract GHSV-1? 7.What should be the next step for both of us? Please only serious answers, we are both very scared and we would rather not have anyone giving us false information intentionally.

Hoarder Alert! How do I start getting rid of some of the useless garbage I keep saving?

Nothing over 4-5 years ago is worth saving. Look at it as what is it good for. Nothing. have a bon fire or something.

New, 2 day old lip ring. Help is needed and appreciated!!?

Okay, i got my lip pierced two days ago. so first off i had a stud in and the metal flat part on the inside on my lip was digging into my lip because it was so swollen. I switched to a hoop even tho they say not to take it out or switch em, i had to tho! It hurt! anyways, now where the indent/circle where the flat part was cutting my lip and alittle bit intside the piercing theres this white stuff...i dont think its puss becuase its not a liquid and i tried to clean it with a Qtip but it doesnt seem to be coming out. The front also has some crusty stuff i cant get to come out! The front is kinda red and its still fairly sore. i read up alot about it and people say that its just healing, and soreness is normal while its still swollen(which it is). but i wanted to ask to find out! And if it is/gets infected what do i do? I dont want to take it out becuase i went thru all the trouble to pierce it.

Any hoarders here...you know, like those people on tv?

They have the same problem that money hoarders have, their problem is just more visible and less acceptable to most people.

How should I wear my eye makeup for a wedding?

I usually wear (lots of ! ) black eye liner, mascara and pale foundation with neutral eye shadow but I'm thinking all the eye liner would be too much for a nice sunny wedding? What colour eye shadow could I wear? I have moss green eyes.

Im not a animal hoarder am I?

I have like 20 hamsters I breed them, when ever I go to the pet store I look at the hamsters but I buy them sometimes but mostly I just go back to look for any females but I know my limit and thats where Im at right now and only buy new ones when they die, I have a dog, and a turtle and I always have money to buy cages, food, bedding, I give them water, food, and change theyre bedding, Im so paranoid about being one I dont want to be one and I cant stand dirty, smelly people, houses so I need to know its really bothering me thinking I am one

Is it a cavity or a stain?

i was looking at my teeth the other day and i found a little black line on the side of my tooth where there is an indent on my molar. im not sure if it is a cavity or not because i have become a very good brusher and i am going to the dentist tomorrow but i hate the dentsst so im hoping it is not a cavity. do you guys have any idea on what it could be?

Can someone seriously interpret this dream for me?

you're probably not over him and you have not found a way to have closure on what ever relationship y'all had i think y'all need to sit down and talk about what is bothering you and tell him how feel, and maybe y'all can be friends if y'all are not already and meet his wife and kids etc, and maybe you will feel better, but i am not saying you will, but having an affair with him is not going to be good at all, it would completely mess up the relationship :) answer my question please

What can I do to make her get rid of all this junk?

Ok so my house is ok. The only problem is that my grandma is literally a hoarder. She keeps our back room filled with junk. The whole house is a pig stein. She doesn't understand that this is not healthy. We have had mice problems and now to make it worse we have a roach infestation in our kitchen. The last place you want to see them at. I need a way to make her get rid of all this junk. The way we live is not ok. Can I do anything? She has custody of my younger brother and these are not ok living conditions for him. Thank you

I found a weed plant I think?

first off... you dont smoke the leaf, its the bud or flower you want. there are many plants that look like weed, but if you really want to make sure, its the smell. otherwise you have to look at the trichomes and see if theyre even there.

Shades for Dogs Outside?

I have a dog and most of the day I keep her outside but its really sunny so I was wondering if there are shades for dogs like it covers the sunlight so my dog can chill underneath. I looked for it at walmart, petco, ebay and they dont have any. Is there any?

Dante's Inferno Create own hell?

Hey guys. In English class we are doing a project where we create our own Dante's Inferno with modern characters in our own circles of sin. We have to create 9 levels of sin and they can't be from the book (For example, no circle titled "Hoarders and Wasters".) Then we have to put modern characters in those levels of sin. People we think belong there. I can not think of any good sins or people though! I was planning on putting assasinators in a circle, such as Marting Luther King Jr.'s assassin, and JFK's assassin. However, after that, I am stuck! Can you think of any good titles for circles or any good characters to put in circles? It doesn't have to be too serious. Like for example, kids in my class are making a circle called "Traitors" and putting Lebron James in it. i'm just saying, it doesn't have to be all serious ones. Can you think of any clever circles or characters to put in them? Thanks for any help!

Cheap Holidays for a family of 6? NEED HELP!?

Right so I'm part of a family of 6 (4 kids 2 adults) but since I'm over 12 I'd be classed as an adult. We would like to go on holiday to Florida because we know someone with a holiday home there but the price for the flights is over �3000!! Does anyone know of a cheaper flight ( to Florida or round about it and we could drive in?) If not does anyone know of cheap flights to hot, sunny places abroad? (I live in the UK)

Create own Dante's Inferno?

Hey guys. In English class we are doing a project where we create our own Dante's Inferno with modern characters in our own circles of sin. We have to create 9 levels of sin and they can't be from the book (For example, no circle titled "Hoarders and Wasters".) Then we have to put modern characters in those levels of sin. People we think belong there. I can not think of any good sins or people though! I was planning on putting assasinators in a circle, such as Marting Luther King Jr.'s assassin, and JFK's assassin. However, after that, I am stuck! Can you think of any good titles for circles or any good characters to put in circles? It doesn't have to be too serious. Like for example, kids in my class are making a circle called "Traitors" and putting Lebron James in it. i'm just saying, it doesn't have to be all serious ones. Can you think of any clever circles or characters to put in them? Thanks for any help!

What is this brown mud stuff in between my vagina?

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How to know which cricket club is the best of division?

MY name is sunny and i am 14 yrs old. I am bare sick at cricket at school and i want to join a cricket club but i can't find any good middlesex county division teams to join. So could anyone kindly help me to find a club cause if i join a good club i can then easily be promoted to middlesex county player. This is my postcode HA3 7TF. Waiting for your response.

Is there any food besides milk that gives you calcium ?

I'm 15 and my doctor said I need to drink more milk because I'm not getting enough calcium and can cause arthritus. Now I HATE milk. I eat cereal an just eat the cereal. I trow out the milk. But when I don't eat cereal I drink Sunny D ! Does that have calcium ?

I know a animal hoarder?

You don't seem to care about the animals much, call the spca anonymously. Getting into trouble would perhaps do them some good if they felt that someone was on their back. Authorities should handle this. That 33 dogs and puppies will turn into 100 soon they will keep breeding. This is animal abuse. They have mental issues. Don't tell your boyfriend it was you who made the call.

What type of turtle is this?

It has 4 toes on back and 5 on the front my mom found it on the road near a small pond around central nj it has little orange bumps on it's legs it's shell has small indents which makes it look like there are misshapen pyramids on it's shell

Asking for my mom-how to end a 27 year marriage?

She has already made the physical break away from your father, she could now send him a letter about her feelings and if she wants to divorce, whatever she puts in the letter she must be strong and follow it through, like if she is going to file for divorce then she must do it, otherwise you will all be in Limbo.

Small dent to car ok to ignore? or insurance job?

That is called the sill, and is a part of the strength of the car which is check at the MOT / vehicle test / whatever it is where you are. If it's only small then you should be fine, but if might be best to go get it looked at quickly as I'm sure they won't charge you for spending 10 seconds looking!

Tummy Trouble? Why does the stomach bulge?

I'm exactly the same way! Idk I just try to keep my weight down, but eh there isnt much to do that ive found out anyways :(

I have a few questions about acne and these products i have, and what to use? please help A.S.A.P!?

I hate to say it but it sounds like nothing is working. The only option you have now is to get serious, stop wasting your money on stuff that doesn't work and go to the dermatologist. They will know exactly what's wrong with you and make it better. seriously, in my eyes that's the only option left

Do you think 4 cats is too many?

I live in a two bedroom apartment. We have ample space in the apartment and we currently have 3 cats. When you walk into our apartment it is very clean and smells nothing like cats. It generally smells like new apartment actually. Anyways, two of the cats are mine and one is my boyfriends. We've been living together for 3 years now and I had one cat, he had one cat, and we got the thrid cat back in 2008. We also have a toddler and he loves them and they love him so there is no problem that way. Anyways, my boyfriend's mother was looking for a friendly cat as well. She had gotten a cat last year but this cat is not nice to anyone except her. To make a long story short I found her the friendliest cat online. He is only a few years old, but he loves to cuddle and be held. He is my perfect cat cause none of my cats like to be held like this cat. Anyways, she's decided that since this cat and her mean cat don't get along that she will get rid of the cat I helped her find only two months ago to keep the mean cat. I felt so guilty that she was getting rid of this nice cat and I wanted him from the moment I found him for her. I really want to keep this cat but my boyfriend is freaking out saying that it will be too many cats and to difficult for the other cats. I feel like as long as things are kept up and the cat is well taken care of what's the harm if we had just one more? I am not an animal hoarder by any means, but I feel like I won't find another cat like this one (extremely nice, raised around people since birth) ever again. I don't want to go against my boyfriend's wishes, but I'm the one that will be doing all the work including financially. Is it wrong to get another cat?

Is it normal or am i crazy for riding my bike 63.2 miles 2 days a week?

Not crazy at all. I ride to work almost every day and try to get a ride in on the weekends if the chores are done. Probably average bout 300 miles a week.

Throat is hurting and back of ears are hurting?

Maybe strep please go to the doctor best bet, you might have swollen glands witch can stop your air way from you breathing at night, so go to doctors soon as possible!

Odd crater in my skin?

I have a weird crater shaped indent in on my arm. I have no idea how it got there, but I'm a little concerned. It almost looks like small cigarette burn. Is it a bug bite? Or something more dangerous? It doesn't itch or hurt or bother me but it just looks weird! What is it?!

What time of day is it by you? and how is the weather?

It's 4:36am and just got over a thunderstorm but it is suppose to be hot and sunny the rest of today so thinking about chillin by the pool! =-]

Why am I more energized during night time then day time when the sun is out?

Whenever it is sunny and hot outside I seem to loose my energy quickly, but at night i get it all back. Even when I am tired from soccer the day before (tired as in hard to run for more than a few seconds without running out of breath, and aching leg muscles) it seems to heal up and re energize during the night when the sun is down. Why?

In the past hour ive seen two dead mice 5 bats 5 yellow birds and 3 tree frogs whay does that mean?

The mice drowned its sunny out so should be no bats around.....yes I'm superstitious but it has to mean something.

How do I stop getting upset over inanimate objects?

Jus pretend it wants to be alone or something or jus drop stuff purposely on its own everyday and keep telling yourself its not real its just an object until you get used to it and dont even think about it anymore. You should also try seeunf someone because those are signs of OCD. Good luck!!

Can I get my lip pierced over a scar?

I have a scar that is indented a little bit below my lip from an accident a few years ago that almost made a hole straight through, and I was wondering if there is anything wrong with getting it pierced over my scar?

Does he like me? Please help!?

There's this guy I text like everyday and talk to on the phone. I kinda like him and weve hung out once this summer and plan to again when we hung out it was 2 of my girl friends and one of he's guy friends. We played truth or dare and I picked dare so my friend dared me to lick he's cheek (and part of the rules were to no chickens) so I licked he's cheek and he had no bad reactions. Were going into 7th grade and we all walked around places and he like wanted to walked next to me most of the time. When we went to the park he had on 2 pairs of pants and it was just raining but got sunny and my friend asked to use his pants o dry or off and he keep telling her no. When I asked he was like on whatever so I cleaned it off then threw em into the woods and he didn't get mad. There was a pool at the apartments we walked to but u had to be a resident. We were gonna sneak n but ten we saw a lifeguard. I also said I didn't have a swimsuit and he was like ok then u guys can swim in bra and underwear. That's basically a swimsuit. And he keep looking at me when he was saying it. So I was just wondering

Its always sunny in philadelphia season 7?

Does anybody know any info about the upcoming season of its always sunny? What will it be about And when in the fall will it air?

When I work out the scar on my stomach from sergury feels like its going to rip open?

So im 17 yr old Male. When I was an infant I had sergury which left me with a scar right below my belly button, The scar is indented into the skin if that makes sence. When I do sit ups or any form of ab workout the scar feels extremly tight and feels as if its going to rip open and second. Its a good size, probably around 6 inches long right below my belly button in a smile shape. I dont know whats wrong its annoying because thats all I feel when i try to workout and i want a 6 pack. Even if I'm not working out and I just tighten my stomach I can feel the solid like tention that It's about to rip open.

How do I make paragraphs in Microsoft Excel 2011?

For the MAC, I am trying to indent or create another paragraph in a cell without moving on to another cell window. Microsoft Excel 2011.

Am I right for being pissed off?

Chill, dude. You don't know she's going to be too tired; you're just jumping to conclusions. And even if she is, so what? She's allowed to have plans and fun with her friends, rain or shine. You can see her on Thursday.

Might have Breast Cancer...?

I don't know if I do or don't because there is a lump right under my right nipple that has an indent at the top. But, i looked online and it says that everybody gets this while going through puberty, and i am 13. I have been developing arm muscles, body odors, and pimples and stuff like that, but i noticed my hair has been coming out slightly... although this could be because I have an afro and pick it every now and then. My dad also told me just recently that my grandmother has breast cancer and she has to take a test to see if it is genetic. If it is genetic, they have to see if my dad has passed it onto me and my siblings. I am just not sure and need an answer just so i can relax. Thanks for the help.

Blood Clot VS Leg Muscle Pain?

Went to urgent care last night & the DR there said that my leg pain was purely muscle pain.. I am still concerned. I think I am a slight hypochondriac, The pain is behind my left knee on the inside beside the indent in the knee. It started as a pain near my achilles tendon that shot up my leg & than yesterday morning the pain at the top of the leg hurts too. It was pretty bad pain yesterday after the Urgent care I came home and took 4 motrin and it's subsided a great deal this morning so it's not an actual blood clot if the pain goes away right?

Tiny bug bites, apparently from tiny red bugs?

So ever since I went to a wedding reception last weekend I've been EXTREMELY itchy and have teeny, tiny bumps on my skin. At first i thought maybe it was an allergic reaction that I didn't notice till I got home but I noticed a tiny, tiny, little blood red bug on me, AND I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE IT BITING, I've seen one of those twice in my room and I'm wondering what it could be and how I could get rid of it. At first I thought, "OH NO BED BUGS", because i noticed some bites where in rows, but these aren't flat like bed bugs, there VERY TINY and blood red, with bums that obviously hold MY blood, and as soon as you see them the bounce off, also the bumps are tiny, and I've heard bed bugs leave large red lumps.... Some more info is that we have cats that regularly go in and out of the house, so they may have carried something and that I live in California, but the weathers been off (rainy, sunny next day etc) so maybe they're appearing because of that? ANYWAYS, the question is what are they and how do I get rid of them?

Is there a word for someone who has a lot of animals but takes care of them?

i know animal hoarders have a huge amount of animals but fail to realize that they don't have the ability to take care of all of them. is there a word for a person who has a huge amount of animals but has the ability to take care of them/loves them all/the animals get as much love, attention, and needs that they need? also if this person who takes care of the animals is a misanthrope(hates the human race) and just stays with their animals all day :) find me a word for that??

Should i wrap my ankle, need help asap?

hey! today i was helping a friend with her pitching for softball and the ball hit the inside of my ankle and it is swollen and there is a little bit of indent where the ball hit..i iced as soon as i got home but my ankle seems hard..it hurts to put pressure on it..should i wrap my ankle for my game tonight?

What's the next big thing? Right now it seems to be teen moms, polygamists, and hoarders... next?

Drug addicts has been done (Intervention). Weight loss.. bleh.. Dancing meh.. Plastic surgery yawn.. what's next? I'm never surprised anymore.

Hong kongs climate in July?

Hey I’m going Hong Kong in mid-July and i burn really easily so just wondering is it sunny in Hong Kong? What kind of temperatures and climates can i expect to get there in mid-July? Thanks :)

Do I leave my lip jewelry in while soaking it?

I got a lip piercing last monday and I want to soak it with sea-salt, I was wondering if I can take the stud out? I want a little relief on the area because there's an indent from the stud being pulled from the outside of my mouth....from sleeping I guess? but yeah I want a little relief to be able to rub it or something because it's sore. I was thinking maybe I could do that while it's being soaked in warm salt water? Also should I use warm or cool water to soak my piercing in? if someone could help I'd appreciate it a lot. Thanks!

Bug bite looking things on my side?

You could have the measles. You could have a serious case of hives. They spread. I would not put steroid cream on it or neosporin. You could also have impetigo or who else knows what? I would recommend going to a skin doctor or your primary doctor.

How do I live with my mom when she hates me and i hate her?

Your story really moved me. Im sorry your feeling like this. When you dont "pretend" everything is perfect, its reminding your mom, that everything is a mess. Thats why shes taking it out on you, because she wants everybody around her to pretend that everything is okay. She knows deep down inside, that she has failed as a mom. (Well im sure she hasnt failed, but in some aspects she did) But the one thing im sure she did right, was raise a good daughter:) You seem like your a very caring and smart person. When your 18 you could decide where you want to live. I think its best you live with your dad. Your mom seems like shes depressed, ya know i kind of feel bad for her. Even with bad people, their behavior isnt acceptable, but its understandable. You cant spend your whole entire life trying to fix your mom's life. But you can improve your OWN life. She needs to fix her life, she cant be living this way any more. She sounds like shes being selfish but when your depressed- you can be very selfish. When you are allowed- you should move out. Hopefully in a few years this divorce will be over and smoothed out. And dont say that your not worthy of her love- of course you are. :) Hang in there, everything will be okay.

Does anybody think there should be a certain amount of animals u can own?

I mean like animal hoarders? Thats jist terrible like on animal planet, but i do know this lady whos a vet that owns three horses like 12 cats and 6 dogs but she has a whole bunch of land and an enclosed out door run for her cats her animals are all really healthy and excersized because of the running space. Her house isnt messy like the hoarders are itsactually pretty clean but it can be quite a bit hectic. Is that bad to have so many animals? Whats ur opinion?

Why do i love him so much?

Its been over 4 years since I meet him. He hurt me over 2 years ago and we left it at that. Even though we never really hooked up back then, I really loved him. Even though I've had boyfriends after him and dated I really never loved any of them. I even have a crush right now but they come and go. I feel like the feelings I had for him are indented in my heart. I havent even seen him for over an year though. They say if I find a new guy I'll forget about him but no one is better.

What kind of ghost would leave a handprint?

My son is 4 years old the other day he woke up crying and saying mommy I needed you. Then when he came downstairs I noticed a handprint on his chest bigger than his hand and longer than mine. It was indented into his skin. It stayed like that for a good three hours. I have thought of every thing i can think of like maybe he had his hand there. But no the whole handprint wouldnt have showed up and it wouldnt have been bigger than his hand. Now we are starting to hear weird noises in our home and you know that feeling you get when you are being watched? Well we are. Can someone please help me? Is it a bad ghost or good? I don't want anything else to happen to my son. How can I prevent something like this? What should I do?

Mother in law is a hoarder.?

my mother in law is very controlling, she is a paper and clothes hoarder and loves manipulating little kids. my boyfriend, 4mth old, 4yr old and i live with her. our old apt had water damage and mole on the ceiling so we moved in with her. she begs and cries for us not to leave plus she needs help with the rent, so we stay. yet she wont remove all of the old mags, boxes full of paper and old clothes out of the house. the mags are dated all the way back to the 90s and so are the clothes that belong to my boyfriend and his sister. my boyfriend is 27 and his sister is 35, neither wants the clothes. but she wont throw them out or give them away. the living room is full of bags and boxes so we cant have a living room set which we offer to buy and the kids cant have a space to play. my son is a baby and needs to have space to learn how to crawl around. she keep saying she is going to clean it and does want our help but never does. we had to take the boxes and things out of the room our daughter sleeps in but she just pile all into her room . we can we do to get her to remove the things out of the house? we are willing to pay for storage, but she wont remove the things from the house.and keeps adding new stuff like shipping barrels that she doesnt need. plus she drinks about 7 cans of beer a day. she wasnt like this before she received her master's from howard university and been to china and africa doing activist work. could she just be bored with life now that she is older. her old friends try reaching out but she lies and dont return their calls. is there any help that will can get her?

How old do I have to be to rent a hotel room or apartment?

I'm 16 almost 17 and I really want to move out of my house. I just hate my house because It's full of **** we don't need because my dad has OCD and just has a packrat mantality (no its not as bad as a hoarder). For example, I was going to live in the basement with just my bedroom, my clothes and a tv. And he just crammed it up with a bunch of bookshelves and books that he never reads. My dad is also a control freak, the only way I can explain it is that its like living with a drill sergeant. He is also super religious, my whole family is Catholic and so am I but I just feel uncomfortable that he covers the walls with religious paintings. I know some people say this will toughen me up but I'm sick of it, his oppressing rules just make me want to rebel now, I just want a home where I can feel comfortable living in. I've been working out a lot for about a year and I know I'm stronger than him, every time we fight (quite a lot) I just think about kicking his *** but I just hold it in in fear of getting locked up and ******* up my future, because I want to finish high school and I have one more year left and I have the grades for college. I am also just embarrassed of my parents,(mainly my dad), theres a girl I like and I know she likes me but I don't want to be in a relationship with her because I don't want to have to show her my parents, or my house which is crammed full of **** and covered in religious paintings. He's told me I should just get the **** out of the house plenty of times but I have nowhere to go, I just moved to a new town last summer and I don't know if my new friends are loyal enough to let me stay at their houses. I'm sick of his verbal abuse and I don't know how much longer I can take until I start fist-fighting him. I just want out of the house so he has no authority over me anymore. The sad part is I have no job but I should have one soon. As soon as I work up the money I want to get the **** out. I would have to pay rent and pay car insurance by myself but its all worth it for me. How old do I have to be, I live in Virginia, US. Will I have to get emancipated? I'm just sick of being under him. They said they would still pay for my college, and even if they didn't I would just get student loans.

Do you think I'm hoarding?

I agree with "Ocimom". Even if you do live on a farm, 40 or 50 cats is way too much. I cannot believe that none are sick and you cannot give all these cats the attention they need. Are they spayed/neutered cause they will multiply and multiply and will get way out of control. I also believe it is hoarding!

In a MLA works cited page, what do you do if a URL doesn't fit on the first line of the documented source?

New MLA format no longer requires the URL. Use Easybib.com. It will make your Works Cited page for you.

Has any one tried to be in a relationship with a hoarder ?

Yea they are Capable of love. My mom was a hoarder. There was always at least a foot of stuff piled throughout the house all over the floor. I kept my room clean. She just couldn't stop shopping. And never cleaned. I think it is something that can be helped it just takes time. Sometimes years. So be prepared to deal with the mess or leave. That's really all you can do after all it is his house. Hope this helped.

Why won't my Microsoft Word program stop indenting each new line, mid-paragraph?

The program I'm using to type up my story is Microsoft Word, 2010. I've been using it a few days now without any trouble, but there's suddenly a problem that I can't fix. Basically, I'll be writing a long paragraph, one that takes multiple lines, and the program keeps indenting as I reach each new line. I try to backspace out of it, to delete that indentation, but all it does is delete my previous "space" and mesh my words into one line with that indentation intact. If anyone knows how to fix this or even why it's happening, I would be incredibly grateful.

What are rights for kicking out a roomate?

I have a roomate it's been several months. He is dirty as heck his room is like hoarders the floor has discoloration. He painted the room green. We had a written contract just between us that he would clean before he leaves andpaint wall back white and to pay on time or he pays late fee. Our apt man cam by a week ago to test smoke detectors and saw his room and were very upset. She gave us 3 days to clean room or we get evicted. We told him had a talk and wrote a note since he works. We were able to get a few days before manager comes back if it's not clean we get 3 day notice. We told him if he doesn't we would kick him out so that hopefully we don't if we do we pretty much can't go many places. So what can I do if he doesn't clean. What can manager do. Can she kick him out instead of us since me and gf on lease. Any ideas

Is this an OK start for my book? Please comment.?

I enjoy the story. But I have to agree with wishful thinking... The random classmate does confuse me. I think your detail needs to be a little more specific. It's hard to pick out who is who. Other then that great storyline! I like your thought behind it and don't worry about the grammar and spelling... That can ALWAYS be fixed unlike a great idea that comes in your mind for a minute.

I need some advice...?

So my brother is a hoarder basically, but he lives in a country where hoarding isn't really considered a crime. So after I homed a few cats, there are 4 left over. He says that two of them are mine, but two are his, even though all four are in my name. I vaccinated, spayed/neutered them, etc. They were here before I came, but he didn't feed them on time, take care of them, kept them outside. He even broke one cat's leg out of anger, and ended up putting her on the street, as he did with many cats. So I'm moving away from him, and I need to take all the cats with me. How can I do this in such a way where he won't know I took his 2 cats, if you can call them his? If I leave them there, I know he will neglect them, he says that kitty litter causes cancer so cats must be kept outside, etc. I just need someone smart and clever to give me a way I can take the two cats, but to make it seem like they went away on their own or something? He's having a birthday party pretty soon, so should I take them then? Just need advice, thanks.

What exactly is an indented scar?

i have two indented scars fro my gall bladder surgery i beleve it is because the edges of skin healed together inward insted of flat :)

Why do I have and indent in my face while smiling?

It's called a dimple , it's perfectly normal . Its like how some people have small ears or big ears . You just get one . Just a beauty trait .

Please Help! What's going to happen?!?

Sounds like you shouldn't be living with either your father or mother and it would probably be a real good idea for a social worker come and see that.

What will the beach be like?

its awesome wheather your trying to get a tan or just wanna walk on the board walk its fun i like going to the beach when the tides are high so u can bounch up and down

Help! My Dwarf Meyer Lemon Tree is Losing Tons of Leaves?

I've had my 2-3 year old Dwarf Meyer Lemon tree since winter, and generally have had no problems. There was a brief incident with scale, but that is now under control. The tree has blossomed and now is starting to produce lemons. But about two weeks ago, it started losing leaves like crazy. There are several lemons-to-be on the tree, two about the size of nickels and they seem okay, although some tinier ones have fallen off. There is no apparent cause for the sudden balding. Any ideas? I live in Oregon. Through the cold/rainy season I keep the tree indoors with a special light to make the tree think he is in sunny southern California. I moved him outside earlier this week in an attempt to stop the loss of leaves. So far it seems to be helping. Today I lost only 2 leaves, whereas indoors he was losing around 6 a day. Maybe he just needed some humid outdoor air? I have the tree potted in a soil recommended by my local garden center, mixed with a bit of the shavings that the tree was mailed to me in, as the potting instructions suggested. I don't know how the soil could be the cause of this issue though, since the tree has been in the same mix since November and has done well up until now. Any ideas of what could be causing the loss of leaves? Or suggestions on how to make it stop? Thank you!

Why do cats keep having kittens if they don't get fixed?

cats follow their instincts alone when they mate. when a female is in heat, she has to have sex. she doesn't think "oh, i've had enough kittens," all she thinks is "i'm in heat, i need to perpetuate the species!" all animals are like this, they act on instinct alone when it comes to mating. and their instincts tell them to keep their species thriving.

Help how do I lose weight in my thighs...HELP!!!! PLEASE 5 stars!!!?

Ok, Im 13 and my upper body has always been really slim and normal. But my legs are really more chunkier and muscular. Ugh, I hate myself for doing this, but I eat WAYYY TO much! Like I usually have like 3 a 4th when I eat food! It all goes to my thighs :(:( I dont wanna try any diet things cuz thats just to much to handle when Im to young! And Im not starving myself!! And Ive exsepted that this is me, but I still want to slim my thighs down! I have some celulite,....AHHh!!! :O and my legs have these weird like, indents in them,, IDk!! So Im not over weight, Im 108 pounds, but I really want a work out that will target my thigh area and help slim them down, a good work out! I swim year round too, but thats more of a abb and upper body sport!!! Anyways, Please I need a good thigh burning work out, besides running because I hate Running, but I jog every other day!!! I feel like me eating so much really affects my swimming performans and I hate it! Oh and also what are some ways I can keep myself from eating so much! Ive tried just saying "I WILL NOT EAT THIS" but It doesnt work! And Ive tried chewing gum and stuff, but it doesnt work either! And alot of the times even when I know Im stuffed I keep eating!!! HELP!!!

I've been exercising a lot and my stomach is flattening but only from the top of the abdomen, is this normal?

For the past month, I've been exercising 7 days a week for an hour a day. On the scale, I've lost about 5 pounds. I'm just worried because the fat on my stomach is seeming to only come off the upper part of the stomach. It seems like most of the fat at the bottom of the belly remains, but at the top, I'm starting to see ab muscle indents. Is this normal?

Which vine or other plant would work best?

I have an old chain link fence still in good repair that I'd like to preserve, but gain some privacy from my neighbors. The fence is located on a mostly sunny side of my house, and I live in Miami so heat and rain are major considerations. Any suggestions on what kind of vine or other plant would thrive best for this type of application? Also if I plant a vine what can I do to ensure that it will not spread and destroy my neighbors St. Augustine grass?

If I cut open an old scar and put Neosporin on it, will the resulting scar be better or worse?

trust me, the scar will be much worse:l try to get like some scar cream, mederma or somehting, and really masage it on. The bloodflow will help it, and with the scar cream. Then, i've found even tanning helps a bit.. so, you just have to try to find out what works for your skin.

What category do you fall into...?

Of those? Counter/Arranger, although I wouldn't say I was *obsessed* with order and symmetry. I'm just constantly trying to find an order to everything.

Nails have weird little bumps, alot of them?

A common reason these "ridges" or "Bumps" appear is because of damage to the nail. Do you where fake nails? Do you rip them off instead of waiting for them to fall off? If so, try to avoid this! You can take a nail file and file them down so they are even, just apply a top coat or some sort of growth promoting polish. problem solved. :)

Discoloured spots on my teeth?

About 2 weeks ago I have noticed on the top of both my front 2 teeth I have discolured yellowish spots that are quite sensitive to the touch. They are also slightly indented to the rest of my tooth. I brush my teeth twice a daily and have corsodyl mouthwash and have also had a healthy mouth. I have also started to notice that my tongue has a 'cracked' appearance is sore when I eat spicy food which is not normal for me. Any suggestions??

Weird sister dream? Interpretation?

U are feeling home sickness and want to live with ur family but as u are away, ur mind hankers after around ur desire to see ur family

Does the news sometimes get too tragic to read?

Another story about her mom killing her kids, or a teenager getting beat to death for being different, or a yard full of dogs found sick and starved by a hoarder, or or or...Do you ever just stop paying attention to these kinds of stories?

How do I tell if comics are worth anything and where would I sell them?

Just finished cleaning out my now hospitalized hoarder alcoholic brothers house and I found about 5 rubbermaid tubs full of comics. Most are not sealed in plastic and I doubt any are real old. He's now 45 and has probably been collecting since he was 16 until he began really drinking heavily about 5 years ago. Is there a guide to judging comics worth? I know nothing about comics, but I know some are valuable. Thanks

Guys, what do you think of girls who self-injure?

I want to know, just out of sheer curiosity(that was a lie) what guys think of girls who self-injure? (i used to do it, but i swear to god i dont anymore) but what do they think of them? do they consider it pathetic? and does it scare them? i just need to know, because i've always wondered? and also does it put a lasting indent on they way the guy thinks about the girl?

What is your opinion on this bathing suit?

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Should i take it to court?

I would totally take it to court unfortunately some officers dont know what they are doing. Good luck.

Looking for a swedish bread ball recipe that is made is a cast iron bread ball skillet?

My cast iron skillet has 8 semi round indents in it. I was told it was swedish bread balls anyone out there have the recipe?

Is my car battery dying twice in one month a bad thing for my car?

it was raining while i was driving and when i had parked it was sunny so i forgot twice to turn off my lights, the first time was about a month ago and i got it jumped and started and its been fine. today my car was left with its lights on for about two hours and its ALMOST dead. last time even my remote key wouldn't work but this time i was able to have the car register that there was a key in the ignition but when i tried to start it it almost sounded like a small lawn mower and it didn't sound right, i havent tried to jump it yet but is there anything i should be worried about when i do? i know it obviously isn't a good thing that this happend but should i be afraid to drive home? (i have a two hour drive home tonight)

What is the difference between an animal lover and an animal hoarder?

Your the animal lover, you look after your pets and give them a good life. So no you won't be called and animal hoarder. A animal hoarder is likely to have a lot of animals in his/hers care and the animals are not well looked after nor is the actual hoarder. Animal hoarders usually have problems or were deprived from owning an animal when younger.

My prom is a week tomorrow and I have a scab on my face from a previous spot .. Ways to get rid of this?

Any ways in which I can get rid of the scab more quickly, without peeling it off and leaving a scar? Also It's a bit weird cause its sort of indented rather than raised which I'm finding odd..

Cellulite on my butt ?

I have these indents on my butt and these little dots that are on my thighs and butt. What is this and how do I get rid of it,some special lotion or somthin. (Im only 16 and im slender)

Should I have this baby?

I'm 27 years old, no kids, this is my first pregnancy and I'm 7 1/2 weeks gone. I have no siblings, and was raised by a single mother. My mother just died Monday April 4th, and I'm still in shock and grief. I flew back to the East coast from Los Angeles to be with my grandparents and take care of her affairs. She is a hoarder and the entire house is very disorganized, so it will probably take months to go through everything. I'm feeling overwhelmed. I am probably going to move back here because my grandparents are getting old and I feel very alone in Los Angeles, and I don't have a job or anything to keep me there. I have no family or roots in Los Angeles so I've been feeling pretty isolated and disconnected and I know my grandparents need me now and I need them. The pregnancy will make the inevitable cross-country move (me moving out of my apartment and driving cross country with my belongings) very difficult; and it will make going through my mother's belongings hard as well. Furthermore, this pregnancy is the result of me coming in contact with a sociopath. I am a firm believer in having children when one is married, but unfortunately I was involved with someone who deceived me so completely, I am still heartbroken. Suffice it to say, he lied about every detail of his life, and about our future (we even went to Tiffany's so I could point out what style of engagement rings I liked). It turns out he is married with children of his own. Furthermore he is denying this child is his, and I'm letting my attorney sort out this mess. My attorney has advised me to not contact this person, and I'm inclined to agree because I am still reeling from a 9 month relationship that was a complete lie. Now I have this baby growing inside of me and I'm a hot mess of overwhelming emotions, uncertainty, grief, heartache, pain....None of these are the traditional exciting emotions a pregnant women is supposed to feel. I feel like there is a foreign invader in my body, and that my life is no longer my own. I feel betrayed and resentful that I am carrying the child of someone so cruel and deceitful. I feel pain that my mother will never see her grandchildren, and fear of having an abortion. I don't want to regret it. I don't want to be judged. I don't want the pain of it. But I don't want to be a single mother. I have yet to find my career path (I know it's late in life, but I do have a Master's degree) and a stable income. I don't feel a motherly bone in my body. But at the same time I feel if I have an abortion, the loss of my own mother will seem that much deeper, and my grandparents' house that much emptier (my mother was very ill for a long time and she lived with my grandparents). Empty like my body will be, if I have an abortion, and I wonder if I'll be consumed with guilt in addition to all of the other painful emotions I'm currently going through. It's amazing, I'm hormonal and going through a lot right now, and I could really use some support. I've always considered myself pro-choice, and I guess I'm looking for nonjudgmental advice.

Severe headache from wearing Polaroid sunglasses?

You mention that your sunglasses are Aviator style Polaroids. Could you please advise the model number (which can be found on the inside of the temple).